We’re supposed to have become civilised now (since the time of cavemen) though I think civilisation is responsible for a lot of negatives in our world today. Intuition and emotional intelligence appears to be making a bit of a comeback though I fear it could take time for it to be fully and consciously integrated back into modern civilisation. So many people go for psychometric tests believing that’s all there is to it – you get the best person for the ‘job’ or ‘opening’ and few people I speak to these days can nuance what it is they’re feeling, so may find it difficult to make decisions! With personal relationships so many young people base their decisions on physical attraction alone… no wonder so many marriages are doomed. Many haven’t thought about what they want in the long term having only a hazy idea about procreating, often before they’ve made a nest or found anyone to feather it!
It’s a good idea to weigh up all the pros and cons of any situation or things you’re planning though at the end of the day, you’re most likely to base your decision on what actually feels right.